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A Word Fitly Spoken

Proverbs 25 (KJV)

Proverbs 25 teaches wisdom in speech, humility, self-control, leadership, conflict, correction, and relationships. Solomon shows that wise people do not rush into arguments, promote themselves, misuse words, seek their own glory, or lose control of their spirit. The chapter reminds believers that timely words, faithful character, gentle answers, and disciplined hearts bring peace and strength.

What You’ll Learn

• Why humility is better than self-promotion
• How wise words can bring beauty, correction, and peace
• Why conflict should be handled slowly and privately
• How self-control protects the heart like walls protect a city
• Why faithful messengers refresh those who trust them
• How kindness toward enemies reflects godly wisdom
• Why seeking personal glory is dangerous

Wisdom speaks carefully, walks humbly, handles conflict privately, responds with patience, practices self-control, and refuses the destruction of pride, gossip, revenge, and emotional recklessness.

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Bible Translation Note: All Scripture on this page is quoted from the King James Version (KJV) and presented in full without alteration.

Proverbs 25:1 These are also proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out.

Proverbs 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter.

Proverbs 25:3 The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable.

Proverbs 25:4 Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.

Proverbs 25:5 Take away the wicked from before the king, and his throne shall be established in righteousness.

Proverbs 25:6 Put not forth thyself in the presence of the king, and stand not in the place of great men:

Proverbs 25:7 For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.

Proverbs 25:8 Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.

Proverbs 25:9 Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:

Proverbs 25:10 Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.

Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Proverbs 25:12 As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.

Proverbs 25:13 As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.

Proverbs 25:14 Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain.

Proverbs 25:15 By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.

Proverbs 25:16 Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee, lest thou be filled therewith, and vomit it.

Proverbs 25:17 Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.

Proverbs 25:18 A man that beareth false witness against his neighbour is a maul, and a sword, and a sharp arrow.

Proverbs 25:19 Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint.

Proverbs 25:20 As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an heavy heart.

Proverbs 25:21 If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink:

Proverbs 25:22 For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee.

Proverbs 25:23 The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.

Proverbs 25:24 It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house.

Proverbs 25:25 As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.

Proverbs 25:26 A righteous man falling down before the wicked is as a troubled fountain, and a corrupt spring.

Proverbs 25:27 It is not good to eat much honey: so for men to search their own glory is not glory.

Proverbs 25:28 He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.

Proverbs 25:1

These are also proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out.

Study: This verse shows that Solomon’s wisdom was carefully preserved during the reign of King Hezekiah. Spiritually, it reminds us that God’s truth is worth protecting and passing down. Practically, wise leaders preserve what is valuable so future generations can benefit from it.

Proverbs 25:2

It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter.

Study: God’s wisdom is deeper than human understanding. Spiritually, some things are hidden so people will seek the LORD with humility. Practically, wise leadership investigates matters carefully instead of making shallow or careless judgments.

Proverbs 25:3

The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable.

Study: Just as the heavens and earth are difficult to measure, the heart of a ruler can be difficult to understand. Spiritually, only God fully knows the heart. Practically, leadership often carries unseen burdens, motives, and responsibilities.

Proverbs 25:4

Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.

Study: Silver becomes useful when impurities are removed. Spiritually, God refines His people by removing sin, pride, and corruption. Practically, growth often requires correction, discipline, and the removal of what weakens character.

Proverbs 25:5

Take away the wicked from before the king, and his throne shall be established in righteousness.

Study: Wicked influence weakens leadership. Spiritually, righteousness establishes what evil eventually destroys. Practically, leaders must be careful who they allow near their decisions, because corrupt counsel can damage an entire organization, family, or nation.

Proverbs 25:6

Put not forth thyself in the presence of the king, and stand not in the place of great men:

Study: This verse warns against self-promotion. Spiritually, pride pushes people into places God has not given them. Practically, forcing yourself into honor can create embarrassment and damage your reputation.

Proverbs 25:7

For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.

Study: It is better to be invited upward than forced downward. Spiritually, God honors humility in His time. Practically, waiting patiently for recognition is wiser than demanding status before it is given.

Proverbs 25:8

Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.

Study: Rushing into conflict can lead to shame. Spiritually, wisdom slows anger and seeks truth before reacting. Practically, arguments, accusations, and disputes should be handled with patience, facts, and restraint.

Proverbs 25:9

Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:

Study: Conflict should be handled directly and privately when possible. Spiritually, gossip and public exposure often reveal pride rather than wisdom. Practically, private conversations protect trust and give room for peace.

Proverbs 25:10

Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.

Study: Careless exposure of private matters can bring lasting shame. Spiritually, God calls His people to guard their words. Practically, once trust is broken through gossip, the damage can be difficult to repair.

Proverbs 25:11

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Study: Wise words spoken at the right time are beautiful and valuable. Spiritually, speech can carry grace, truth, and healing. Practically, timing, tone, and wisdom can make words far more powerful than volume or emotion.

Proverbs 25:12

As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.

Study: Wise correction is valuable when received by a teachable person. Spiritually, humility turns rebuke into growth. Practically, correction only helps when the listener has an obedient and willing heart.

Proverbs 25:13

As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.

Study: A faithful messenger brings relief and refreshment. Spiritually, faithfulness reflects the character God desires. Practically, dependable people become trusted because they follow through when responsibility is placed in their hands.

Proverbs 25:14

Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain.

Study: Empty promises disappoint like clouds that bring no rain. Spiritually, boasting without faithfulness is dishonest. Practically, people lose credibility when they promise what they do not intend or are not able to deliver.

Proverbs 25:15

By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.

Study: Patience and gentle speech can accomplish what force cannot. Spiritually, meekness is strength under control. Practically, calm persistence often breaks resistance better than anger, pressure, or harsh words.

Proverbs 25:16

Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee, lest thou be filled therewith, and vomit it.

Study: Even good things can become harmful without moderation. Spiritually, self-control protects the heart from excess. Practically, pleasure, success, food, entertainment, and comfort must be governed by wisdom.

Proverbs 25:17

Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.

Study: Healthy relationships require boundaries. Spiritually, love considers the needs and space of others. Practically, even good relationships can be strained by overstepping, overusing access, or lacking consideration.

Proverbs 25:18

A man that beareth false witness against his neighbour is a maul, and a sword, and a sharp arrow.

Study: False testimony wounds like weapons. Spiritually, lies are destructive and dishonor God. Practically, slander and false accusations can crush reputations, relationships, families, and communities.

Proverbs 25:19

Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint.

Study: Trusting an unreliable person during trouble causes pain and instability. Spiritually, faithfulness matters most under pressure. Practically, character is revealed when responsibility becomes difficult.

Proverbs 25:20

As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an heavy heart.

Study: Insensitive encouragement can deepen pain instead of helping. Spiritually, wisdom requires compassion and discernment. Practically, hurting people often need empathy, presence, and understanding before cheerful words.

Proverbs 25:21

If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink:

Study: Wisdom responds to enemies with mercy instead of revenge. Spiritually, kindness reflects the heart of God. Practically, doing good to those who oppose you breaks the cycle of bitterness and retaliation.

Proverbs 25:22

For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee.

Study: Kindness toward enemies can bring conviction and expose the difference between mercy and evil. Spiritually, the LORD rewards those who choose righteousness over revenge. Practically, goodness can soften situations that anger would only inflame.

Proverbs 25:23

The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.

Study: A firm response can stop gossip. Spiritually, wisdom refuses to entertain slander. Practically, destructive speech often continues because people allow it, laugh at it, or remain silent when they should reject it.

Proverbs 25:24

It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house.

Study: Constant conflict destroys the peace of a home. Spiritually, God values peace, self-control, and gracious speech. Practically, a large house cannot make up for a home filled with strife.

Proverbs 25:25

As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.

Study: Good news refreshes the heart like cold water refreshes the thirsty. Spiritually, encouragement can strengthen weary souls. Practically, hopeful reports bring relief, courage, and renewed strength after waiting.

Proverbs 25:26

A righteous man falling down before the wicked is as a troubled fountain, and a corrupt spring.

Study: When the righteous compromise before the wicked, it corrupts what should be clean and trustworthy. Spiritually, God’s people are called to stand firm. Practically, compromise weakens influence and confuses those who depend on righteous leadership.

Proverbs 25:27

It is not good to eat much honey: so for men to search their own glory is not glory.

Study: Just as too much honey becomes harmful, seeking personal glory becomes destructive. Spiritually, pride steals honor from God. Practically, people who constantly chase recognition often lose the very respect they want.

Proverbs 25:28

He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.

Study: A person without self-control is vulnerable like a city without walls. Spiritually, emotional discipline protects the soul from temptation and destruction. Practically, uncontrolled anger, desire, speech, and reactions leave a person exposed to ruin.

Proverbs 25 focuses on wisdom in speech, leadership, humility, conflict, relationships, correction, and self-control. Solomon teaches that wise people do not rush into arguments, expose private matters, seek their own glory, or live without restraint. The chapter shows that words can be beautiful, correction can be valuable, faithfulness can refresh others, and gentleness can accomplish what harshness cannot. Proverbs 25 ultimately calls believers to live with humility, discretion, emotional discipline, and trust in the LORD.

Lord, teach me to walk in humility, wisdom, and self-control. Guard my words so they are spoken at the right time and in the right spirit. Help me avoid pride, gossip, revenge, careless conflict, and the pursuit of my own glory. Refine my heart, remove what is impure, and make me faithful in what You have entrusted to me. Give me patience, compassion, and discernment in every relationship. Help me rule my spirit so my life is strong, guarded, and pleasing to You. Amen.

• Read Proverbs 25 every day this week
• Memorize Proverbs 25:11, Proverbs 25:15, Proverbs 25:21-22, or Proverbs 25:28
• Pause before responding during stressful conversations
• Encourage someone with a timely and thoughtful word
• Refuse to participate in gossip or backbiting
• Identify one area where you need stronger self-control
• Show kindness to someone difficult instead of responding with revenge

Proverbs 25 is a chapter about wise restraint. Solomon teaches that humility is better than self-promotion, private correction is better than public exposure, and patient speech is more powerful than harshness. The chapter warns against false promises, false testimony, gossip, revenge, excessive pleasure, and seeking personal glory. It also reminds readers that self-control is a form of protection. A person who cannot rule their own spirit is like a broken city without walls. Proverbs 25 calls believers to speak wisely, act humbly, live faithfully, show mercy, and allow God’s wisdom to govern the heart.

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